Associated with pension transfer sex work, webcamming doesn’t hold the best reputation. It’s often known as exploitation or even a last-resort hustle to repay debt, but Reed Amber, 26, explains how webcam models are only your average self-employed freelancers with the same amount of agency and independence anyone else.
Model, producer and co-creator of YouTube channel ComeCurious, Reed it’s essentially the physical embodiment of sex positivity, which she defines as “trying to produce people think that what they’re doing and what they’re into isn’t wrong, it’s normal and it’s absolutely fine.” She’s a massive advocate for removing stigma and taboos around sex, and that we trapped with your ex for more information on webcamming, a line of sex work that is certainly seldom mentioned.
Exactly why do you believe some men, and possibly women also, prefer it to porn?
“There’s a lot free porn i feel webcamming is a bit more of the personal one-on-one. You are able to use the internet and locate any ol’ stuff, but webcamming is much more personal; it’s tailored exactly from what you would like and what you’re trying to find. You’re not sharing it with 100 thousand other individuals. Here is your show. Most of the time you raise your relationship, I talk to you as being a friend and i also respect you as a person. ‘How has your day been, what have you get from the shops, exactly what are you cooking for dinner…’ it’s such as an online relationship”
…So it’s a lot like the ‘girlfriend experience’?
“Yes, it’s just like the girlfriend experience. But that also is determined by exactly what the webcam model is a lot like plus just what the person paying is like because people want different things.”
Perhaps you have had say no to a request?
“I’m one in the cam girls who would seldom refuse. I’ve always wanted to try interesting things, but that’s not since i felt like I had to. It’s just personally a few things i wish to accomplish. I want to tick stuff off my list, I must it is able to once specially when looking at sex positivity. Even though it’s something I’m not necessarily into, I’d still give it a try. Easily didn’t as it, I’d be like ‘sorry, I’m not necessarily into that.’ But there’s lots of people that will avoid a lot of things.”
Are there any really common requests that you receive?
“It is dependent upon the profile that you just set up because whenever you come up with a profile, you’re writing a little bio of you, and read may be seen as somewhat more ‘out there’. I’m ready to accept anything, like roleplay, so most of the time I purchase roleplay requests, more even though I’ve found them fun it doesn’t matter how unusual or bizarre they may be. What excites me are uncommon and strange requests that you just wouldn’t really find. Life’s too boring otherwise”
Site to react if you say to them the things you do?
“I have a mix of emotions. Mostly people react positively due to the way I talk about it. It’s so different if you’re really shy and timid and quiet about this. It immediately emits this concept of ‘oh they’re not completely at ease with it.’
Basically you are free to become the perfect sex-positive self in your full potential…
“Exactly! That’s where I got my first taste of sex positivity. Dealing with my relationships on and on to school I had been like ‘woah, nobody thinks generate income do, I need to be weird’. Being a webcam model, I realised everybody is into something else entirely, they simply think that they can’t discuss it.”
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